It took many years of vomiting up all the filth I’d been taught about myself, and half-believed, before I was able to walk on the earth as though I had a right to be here.
I am a Mindvalley Certified Self-Empowerment coach who is dedicated to supporting LGBTQIA+ individuals, especially those of color, on their journey to step into their greatness as fully self-expressed, self-loved and successful individuals they were created to be.
I was raised in the Christian church and as a teenager, I fell in love with God. At the same time, I was also beginning to understand that I was a gay man. Everything I was taught in church about homosexuality caused me to hide this from everyone around me. I started to try to numb myself to my attraction. I rejected my attraction. I rejected myself...
Are We a Fit?
Have been or are ashamed of who you are as LGBTQ+
Want to have a relationship with God but wonder if God loves you
Think you are going to face eternal damnation for living your truth
Do your best to fit in with society and culture, hiding your truth because your fear of being rejected or attacked for being yourself
Feel like you are in a toxic relationship with church
Are afraid to "come out"
Just want to live a more full, authentic and fabulous life
Whatever you've gone through, I see you and I celebrate you for making it to this point in your life. You are amazing and your life can reflect that!
Perhaps You Find Yourself Thinking:
What could life be like if God does love me
How can I truly be happy while living boldly as I am
What if I was celebrated for being me and not just tolerated
There has to be something more to life and God than I've been taught
Can I be comfortable in my skin and loved?
Do We Share a Similar Story
If you’re like me, you’ve done a whole lot of trying to fit in.
You may have even tried praying or praising the gay away.
And while things seem great on the surface, you still feel ashamed, unfulfilled and alone.
And though you have a few friends who love you, and you have found places to go to feel accepted, you ultimately feel like it's not enough, there has to be more to life.
And you wonder how the God whose image you are created in can be offended by who you are and who you love
You crave being fully seen, heard and LOVED as you ARE.
And there is a voice inside you telling you that what you crave is possible but you just don't know what to do or how to get there.
You see others living authentically and you envy their lives.
This is how I used to live
You dream of a living an amazing, authentic life. You picture yourself happy, doing what you love, free from shame. Knowing that you are wholly loved by God and you are surrounded by a tribe that celebrates you.
Working With Me
The message we've received from our culture, community, and religion is that there is something wrong with who we are. But in the depth of our Soul, we know we are created in the image of the Divine. And we feel this disparity as sadness, shame, frustration and even anger. We become disempowered in many ways and we hide the truth of who we are to be loved and accepted.
Together we will work to become aware of the voices that we have internalized that have caused us to feel disempowered. You will learn to quiet these voices and truly understand that you are loved completely by the Divine and that WHO YOU ARE is to be celebrated. Working with me, you will reclaim dominion over your life as a Child of God.
With this knowledge and understanding, you will be empowered to create the life you have been longing to live.
I help clients:
Develop a deeper sense of self-awareness, self-appreciation & self-love
Embrace a more expansive and loving understanding of the Divine and who they are as a child of the Divine
Discover what they truly want and how to create it in their life
Heal from religious trauma, release shame, and live a more empowered life
Set and honor your boundaries to create respectful and loving relationships of all types
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What Others Are Saying
I have known Dulani for many years, and one of the things that impresses me most about him is his masterful ability to bridge the wisdom of Christianity and “New Thought,” and present it in ways that help you not just understand the teachings at a deeper level, but also apply them to positively transform your life - often times, miraculously so.
Jerome Braggs, Intuitive Empath & Friend
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