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Learn the Art of Being Self-Centered

Live as the main character of your life and be in control of your inner states of being by taking back EVERYTHING you gave up to make others happy or comfortable and CREATE a life you LOVE to LIVE



As a Self-Empowement Coach, I help clients discover the ways they have given up their authenticity, goals and mind to appease others.  I am blessed to help people rediscover and nurture a deep appreciation & love for themselves and create a life they love living using the Universal Laws. I work primarily with LGBTQ+ individuals and those healing from church/religious related traumas.

I have found for myself and for the people I have worked with that many of us feel victimized by others, or even by life itself. These people have either tried to roll with it or rebel against it with limited success either way. Living as a Black, Gay man, I have felt victimized by the church, the black community and society at large.  Feeling like this makes it hard to even want to continue to live.


My journey led me out of the church and into a deep understanding of and love for God.  This understanding helped me learn how life works, how to love myself, and how to trust the presence of the Divine in my life to help me own my space in the world, live authentically and create true success.

I am called to help others, especially LGBTQ+ individuals, take back the power and joy of being able to feel deeply loved while living authentically, audaciously and passionately. Using one-on-one coaching and group programs I help my clients discover, heal and release any shame or guilt and create empowering self-images that allow them to love themselves and live as audaciously as they desire.


Coaching Services

Who I Typically Work With:

  • Individuals challenged by the idea of 'coming out' or feeling comfortable living their truth.

  • Those who feel stagnated by traditional Christianity, looking for a more expansive spiritual experience and understanding of God.

  • Those who want to understand how life works and how to use that knowledge to create a more joyful life.

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Self-Empowerment Coaching

Self-Love is the Key to Mastering Your Life

You were created to have dominion over the landscape of your life. 

Working with me, you will discover the keys to reclaiming your rightful place as master of your life. 

You will discover how to determine what lies within the landscape of your life, what is outside your realm of control and how to manage it all as you create your best life.

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Success & Prosperity Coaching

Heart Centered Prosperity

As a Child of the Divine, you are destined to live a more abundant and successful life.  But how do you measure your success or determine what it means to live abundantly?

Together we will uncover and remove what is blocking you from the success and abundance you should be living as we work together to understand what true success and abundance is for you. 

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Relationship Coaching

Become the Best Version of Yourself

Life is about relationships.  While family, friendships, and love relationships are what we focus on getting, we also need to understand our relationship ourselves which is expressed as how we show up in the world and how the world shows up for us.

Life reflects to us our beliefs about ourselves and how much we matter through the people we interact with.  I will support you in learning what it means to love yourself and how this translates into better relationships with others.


I've helped clients like you develop:

  • A deeper sense of self-awareness, self-appreciation & self-love

  • An more expansive and loving understanding of the Divine and who you are as a child of the Divine

  • An understanding of what you really want and how to create it in your life

  • An understanding of what your emotions are

  • An understanding of what your personal power is and how to take it back

  • The ability to get out of your own way and get what you really want from life

Client Testimonials

"Dulani is a wonderful mentor and coach who truly cares about his client’s goals. He has an amazing gift of insight that helps to reach his client’s deeper issues that may need to brought to light and resolved or healed.

His easy-going, non-judgmental manner keeps one comfortable and at ease, and his genuine support and empathy are gifts that he readily shares with his clients."

“I believe the following are Dulani’s best traits:

  • He is very approachable

  • He has objective views and gives feedback and support in a professional and un-biased way

  • He is non-judgmental and makes clients feel comfortable talking about any subject

  • He is a great listener and thinks before he responds.

  • He is passionate about what he does and takes the advice he gives seriously so that clients are not led astray.”

“It is easy to determine that his love for the people around him, and his sincere and honest desire to help and be a positive force in their lives, is what strengthens him and keeps him on the track to success.”

“Through conversations with him, you can easily determine how insightful he is, as well as how eager he is to both learn and help people through situations. He has a wealth of knowledge and experience, and is able to apply all of what he has learned and experienced to successfully help others when they really need it.”


“I get up every morning determined both to change the world and to have one hell of a good time. Sometimes, this makes planning the day difficult”

E.B. White


Working With Me

Working with me begins with a complementary 45 minute Discovery Session.

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